I suppose I may as well put my two cents in at this point since we have people on both sides of this. I'm just going to ramble for a while and then respond to some of the points that others have made.
I'm actually in favor of this ruling because I believe it opens up an avenue not previously available to people who are affected by these feelings. This will likely lose me a few points with some of the users here, but so be it. That is the point of debate, no?
The current stigma behind those attracted to children is very negative, and usually rightfully so. Anyone who admits to having this attraction is almost immediately ostracized by everyone who knows about it, regardless of if they've actually done anything legally wrong. In my eyes, it's turned into more of an attack on the one who is attracted than a defense of the children. People seem to say that if you're attracted to children, you're going to try and take advantage of them. What they fail to realize is that, for many of the people with these feelings, they are no different than those feelings of heterosexual or homosexual people. Does my attraction towards a 19-year old girl mean that I'm going to stalk her, kidnap her, and have sex with her? No, it doesn't. To me, pedophiles are not rapists or predators any more than anyone else is; rapists and sexual predators exist in every sexual orientation.
One of the common arguments I hear against it is that viewing images of "sexualized" images of children, whether those be actual sexual acts, skimpy clothing, or whatever, will lead people to feel more comfortable with those feelings and thus act upon those feelings. However, I don't see this as the case. I equate it to something like enjoying pornography portraying things like rape or violence towards sexual partners. Does watching a porno about rape actually increase the chances of someone going out and raping another person? I also see it along the same lines of the violent video games argument. Just because someone enjoys going and killing another character in a video game, that doesn't mean they are going to go out and murder someone in the streets. If it's entirely fantasy, I don't see the issue.
Another argument I often hear against the idea of child pornography in itself is that if there wasn't an audience, then the videos, images, etc. would not be made. However, I don't see this as being true either. The people who make these videos and images are not doing it for others; they're doing it for their own perverted interests. Whether or not someone else views them is irrelevant; they just want to be able to relive their indulgence. I suppose there are times in which this argument is true, but I believe they are few and far between.
Before I get too far into this, I do want to say that I'm not for legalizing sex with children and that if I knew anyone who violated a child, I'd be the first one to be seeking his or her head on a stick. As adults we are meant to be protecting the children from the bad in the world, not being the ones causing them firsthand harm by performing such acts with them. I don't condone anyone who does these acts, and I'm entirely for the persecution of them, and of the people making such pornography.
However, I do feel the distinction is the right call. As someone in the comments section pointed out, the current view of "sexual predators" is a one-size-fits-all view. People who have molested ten children in cold blood are put on the same watch list as people who are 19 and happen to have sex with their girlfriend/boyfriend who happens to be 15-16. While the DSM distinction isn't addressing this specific instance, it is opening the door for the understanding of people who have feelings that seem foreign to others instead of immediately jumping to the conclusion that anyone who thinks a child is attractive is automatically going to try and harm that child sexually.
This also opens the door to these people getting help from psychiatrists or other mental health professionals rather than being secluded and having to seek refuge from others who share their attractions. Instead of a psychiatrist being required to report pedophilic thoughts (correct me if I'm wrong, but I do believe they have to do so), people will be able to confide in these professionals and determine ways to actively prevent themselves from actually going and acting upon their urges. To me, this is better than pedophiles coming together to assist one another, because in a large enough group of any collection of people, there is bound to be a sexual predator who is going to steer the others in the entirely wrong direction.
tl;dr - I think this is going to help more than it hurts, and I don't really think it's going to make life any worse for children or the people who are trusted to protect them. It simply seems like a way for the people with these feelings to be more open and seek help in dealing with them.
I believe this is one of the better examples of who would fall under this classification actually. People who are attracted to the idea of children, but not those who are actually going to try and have intercourse with them. So yes, I believe they would be classed under this orientation, but I cannot say that with 100% certainty.
I totally agree with you in the sense that an underage child is no capable of giving informed consent and I do agree with the law having a blanket age at which it cuts off between legality and illegality, despite the fact that people do all age at different speeds. In fact, it's necessary for it to be like that. Without such an age, a fifteen-year old, for example, who is very mature can engage in consensual intercourse with an older male, change her mind, and then play the ignorance card in court and get the man into trouble. Conversely, someone who is a less mature 20-year old and is not ready for something of that nature could be portrayed by an older man as someone who is more mature than she seems to be. It just leads to too many loopholes without such a cutoff.
I actually referenced this above, but I personally believe it to be the opposite. I think these people being more understood and having more avenues in which to help themselves will lessen the occurrences of actual sexual offenses towards children.
I actually believe this is more the norm than the exception. I don't think many people who are attracted to children are only attracted to those who are underage. It seems to me that many of them are attracted to the idea of females or males as a whole and simply don't draw the line between who is or isn't old enough. Honestly, I think if someone is attracted to a child simply because of the child's age, that is leaning more towards the "pedophilic disorder" side because of the fact that are looking for someone who is underage, ignorant towards the implications of sex, etc.
So this thread is a sort of subtle confession, huh?
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