When are we starting the parties? Also, every wedding I've been a part of have had two separate parties with the bride and her bridal party and the groom and his groomsmen. Then the bridal party take care of getting the bride ready and getting her down the aisle, and the groomsmen do the same for the groom. Some less traditional weddings have a Jack and Jill for the couple together, either instead of the bachelor and bachelorette parties, or in addition to them. The Jack and Jill is used to raise money for the wedding.
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