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      No matter what i do

      No matter where i go, what i do, who i talk to and everything, it seems i am always ignored. i try to pretend this doesnt bother me, but in actuality, it stabs me like a demon in the night. I just... feel so alone. I mean, the sanctuary is nice and all, but i need somepony to love me for who i am. It's not fair! i try to talk to women, but i find that i cant unless theyre lesbians or older than i am... I cant talk to ppl of my age group except on the internet

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      I understand where you're coming from with this. Used to happen to me all the time and still does occasionally.
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      It is better than being listened to and not be taken seriously... I lend you my ear and give you my friendship. If you would like help PM me and I will do what I can.

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      My advice, try and relax. Often if you're being ignored its nothing personal, people are probably just wrapped up in their own worlds. I'm sorry to hear its put you in so much pain :c

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      Lol seriously though social awkwardness is pretty normal, everyones a bit awkward at a time but it passes. Give it time, its not like youll be forever alone like Doug from the Walking Dead Game

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      my best advice for finding a girl is to just keep on trying, if they reject you immediattly then they're obviously not worth your time dude.
      Well I wish I could say it was fun but it really wasn't, the bit I've been here was as much a shitstorm of hate as it was before even when I was simply making a joke, I'm gone.

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      I'm going to begin by apologizing if this comes off as harsh, but are you absolutely certain that you're being ignored? I only ask because you complained in the shoutbox about everyone ignoring you when, in actuality, nearly everyone responded to you and you chose to ignore THEM in order to continue wallowing in self-pity. Perhaps the problem stems not from the world ignoring you, but from you selectively ignoring the parts of your life that could satisfy you because you're in a phase of life that tends to promote self-pity as some sort of deep introspection that compliments their tendency for mild narcissism.

      If this is truly a legitimate issue in your life I would advise you to look for friends rather than girlfriends. Friends will help you with your loneliness. Friends will be significantly less pressure than attempting to find a relationship. Friends can turn into lovers at a later time. I'd also suggest that you look for these friends outside of your regular circles. Getting out and meeting new people and trying new things will help improve your confidence because you'll see that you can adapt to new situations and you'll get the kind of ego-stroking gratification that can really only be satisfied by meeting a new friend.

      I hope things improve for you
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      What's wrong with an older woman? Like, how much older?
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      Quote Originally Posted by Twilicious View Post
      I'm going to begin by apologizing if this comes off as harsh, but are you absolutely certain that you're being ignored? I only ask because you complained in the shoutbox about everyone ignoring you when, in actuality, nearly everyone responded to you and you chose to ignore THEM in order to continue wallowing in self-pity. Perhaps the problem stems not from the world ignoring you, but from you selectively ignoring the parts of your life that could satisfy you because you're in a phase of life that tends to promote self-pity as some sort of deep introspection that compliments their tendency for mild narcissism.

      If this is truly a legitimate issue in your life I would advise you to look for friends rather than girlfriends. Friends will help you with your loneliness. Friends will be significantly less pressure than attempting to find a relationship. Friends can turn into lovers at a later time. I'd also suggest that you look for these friends outside of your regular circles. Getting out and meeting new people and trying new things will help improve your confidence because you'll see that you can adapt to new situations and you'll get the kind of ego-stroking gratification that can really only be satisfied by meeting a new friend.

      I hope things improve for you


      This regarding the shoutbox thing was EXACTLY what I thought when I saw this.

      Not being rude here Tenor, but whenever you were in the chatbox complaining about pretty much everything most people there went out of their way to talk to you and help you. To which you didn't reply, you just ignored them in return.

      To then complain about people ignoring you is sheer stupidity. But that's just my opinion.

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