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    1. #1
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      You have one week to hug me
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      Part of my therapy.

      As of today I am clearing up all my friends lists. Including here on this site. If you still consider me a friend then let me know by sending me a VM with a hug and tell me why you would like to remain my friend.

      Cleaning up my skype. You have one week to hug me and tell me why I am your friend. After that, I will remove the ones that do not hug and miss them forever. Part of my therapy.

      If you do not make it in time, don't worry, just be a bit late and I'll add you back.
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      I'm always pretty against the whole 'do this or you're not my friend anymore'.

      What's the reasoning behind this being part of your therapy, if I may ask?
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      Quote Originally Posted by Lyra View Post
      I'm always pretty against the whole 'do this or you're not my friend anymore'.

      What's the reasoning behind this being part of your therapy, if I may ask?
      Well first off I am glad that this is a joke to @Halfire @Remelia @Perchta and @Pyro Mancer. Thanks for bringing me the old EqF feelings back assholes. Also glad the brought back the 'lol' button into life and rants, good move. Since it is also part of my therapy to be a bit more of an asshole myself, let me just say a few things. First off, fuck you. Fuck you so hard. That's all. That's all I think about you.

      Lyra, my therapist suggested that I am hanging on to too much of my past. Putting too much hope into things that I can't change or do anything about. She recommended that I delete old contacts from my phone, computer, or where ever I have them. But I decided to give my old friends a chance to justify not talking to me for many months. None of you even know that I am dealing with panic disorder do you? I have five to six random panic attacks every day. One panic attack alone makes me feel like I just worked an 8 hour shift. I constantly bleed while having them because my blood vessels like to explode from high blood pressure. And now that I am trying to get over it I want support, not a bunch of people on a friends list, sitting there. It has become hard for me to reach out to my old friends because of my anxiety. I can't work. I had the best job I could have asked for and lost it because of this shit. I am tired of being put on the side like I do not matter.

      So, if you want to be my friend still, follow the instructions of my first post. I would love to reconnect with you.

      @Nina @Stryke @Joystick @Grassy Tale @Justice Thank you.
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      In all honesty, I don't know the slightest thing about you nor will I ever know you well probably but yes I have indeed heard about your panic attacks. Don't worry, me not knowing you is more my ignorance and non-caring attitude then it is your fault. However I do know a thing about clinging to the past and all I can say is that while people might not understand it, it is the right thing to do. I also wish to congratulate you on being able to say "fuck you", a lot of people keep their feelings to themselves untill it finally explodes so all I can say is swear if you feel like swearing because in the end of if all you'll feel better. As you mentionned it's indeed not a thing to really use the lolbutton for as well because there's nothing funny about this whole matter. I don't really think you needed to explain though because to true friends it doesn't matter what the reason behind wanting a hug is as long as it makes you feel better or helps you in some way.

      I wish you the best of luck with this emotional deletingprocess and can only wish you the best of luck with your future therapy/panic attacks.

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      Well I wish I could say it was fun but it really wasn't, the bit I've been here was as much a shitstorm of hate as it was before even when I was simply making a joke, I'm gone.

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      Okay, there was a bit of confusion as to why I told them 'fuck you'. Hm, I can't really say that I didn't want to, because I did, but I am trying to learn how to be angry again. I spent sooo long suppressing my anger that I have forgotten how to be properly angry. Just another part of my therapy as I work to get better. I do hope this goes to show that I am willing to take any steps needed to get well. Time for me to care more about myself rather than the well-being of everyone, at least until I get better.

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      A little light-hearted humor never hurt anyone. I don't normally take sides on this kind of thing, but @Pyro Mancer definitely didn't mean anything by what he originally said, and I think his reaction was pretty justified.

      I also definitely disagree with basically lining everyone up and asking them to explain why they're your friend, but whatever you want to do.

      I've always tried to be very supportive of you, but this whole thing seems very off to me.
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      Quote Originally Posted by Sakuya View Post
      A little light-hearted humor never hurt anyone. I don't normally take sides on this kind of thing, but @Pyro Mancer definitely didn't mean anything by what he originally said, and I think his reaction was pretty justified.

      I also definitely disagree with basically lining everyone up and asking them to explain why they're your friend, but whatever you want to do.

      I've always tried to be very supportive of you, but this whole thing seems very off to me.
      Well they deleted my post that apologized to Pyro and the one explaining what this is all for. Suffice it to say that I am working on moving on, can't live in the past and if Pyro wants to work it out he can send me a PM. I was a bit hard but that is only because I am also taking my therapists advice and trying to be angry at things that would normally anger people. Here's hoping by the time this is all done we can all move on.

      I just want everyone in this thread to know, that this thread isn't to: Piss people off, to be taken lightly, or to make myself seem like an ass. I am just doing everything I can to get well again. Everything. If the methods of that approach don't meet your approval, then PM me and we will discuss it. This thread is only here to let people know what is going on, that's it. I will not debate my choice here.
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      The reason I asked is because this falls under what I'm currently studying, I was simply curious for the reasoning behind it.

      I'm glad you've decided to give your old friends a chance at least, and I hope this course of action will proof to be fruitful to you.

      I won't be sending you a hug, not because I do not wish to be your friend, but because it feels like I'd be making a commitment I'm not sure I want to commit to.
      That said, I'll always be here and available to you through the site should you need anything (from a friend or staff).

      To end this off I'd like to remind everyone to stay respectful to eachother, and that includes you, whirl.
      While I appreciate you relearning how to display emotions please do ensure you stay between the forum rules.
      And to the rest of you, whether or not you approve of this method is of course completely up to you and yes, you're allowed to give your opinion. Please just try to make sure to be a little considerate.
      Any posts which can not follow these simple rules will be removed from the thread.
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      Are you having panic attacks because you're worried what others may think of you or am I completely wrong? I'm curious what is triggering your panic attacks.

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